HEEEEEEy
LooooooK..something scary HapPened to me not last night..the ngiht before it..i watched something about ghosts and stuff then i slept...
I suddenly woke uP before the fajer prayer maybe by 30 minutes or so..i had my planket on..and suddenly ..and pelase don't laugh :@..i felt some one is pulling my hair not tightly just alil bit and removing the right side of my planket from me..i gooooooot soooooooooooo sCAAAAAAAArEd...SOOOOOOOOo frightening : ( looool..really ..it was soooooo reaaaal that i am not sure wehther it was a dream or real...!!!!
Next time i shouldn't watch Scary things :@@@
okay..let me tell u a dream i once had..
i was once.. really (no in a dream)..in makkah for عمرة with my brother, his wife and children and mother and the day before we get to UAE..i dreamt that i was engaged to a guy who i dunno who..was not very handsome in the dream..Lil bit short for a guy.. .i think also with curly hair looooool..i seemeD unHapPy and was telling mom..that "He did not even call once since we got engaged..!!!" and i sounded sad...i also think cuz i forgot that in the dream his mom got angry or upsEt or did something wrong..dont remmeber
anyways..when we got back to UAE after few days..a lady calls i think it was his aunt and is looking for a girl..it was not a very formal proposal just talk..nothing serious yet..but anyways when mom asked about him..Allah a3lam but they said very close things about him just like in my dream!! like he was lil short not very handsome..and not very social.. and that he is momy's boy lool..and she is in control..any ways once i heard that i got SCared loooooool..i said i dooooooon't want ..i did not even pray estekhara..maybe it was wrong to judge him by a dream but i really felt it was a sign..and anyways..i did not feel encouraged..and maybe the guy is better than me or deserves better i don't mean he is not good..but i did not feel comfortable..and i don't always relay on dreams..maybe if i heard very great things about the guy..i would have changed my mind..dunno
i just wanna add that i am not saying that looks are the number one criteria that I or anyone of us should base their choice on..but its part of it..and for me it was more about the dream..the sign.and the information i got about the guy that was not very appealing..but soemtimes we should be more realistic and investigate first then Make A DeCision..
and once there was another proposal...and i dream there were two big white beautiful Full Moons in the sky..it was night..and suddenly in the dream i realized one moon is a baloon not a real mooon..and then the proposal thing did not work out..el7amdu Allah for everything :D maybe it was a sign..?! dunno..it's weird how soemtimes we dream somehting and it becomes real or it might be a sign..other times its just dreams or thoughts floating in the air..u know..?!
okay..so my question to you is..What do u think are the some 3-4 important criteriaSs for choosing a partner..? and put them in order..what are the most important things for u..
some may say..religion..aklagh then looks..
or
religion..looks..money..personality
or religion..personality..family status..
so tell me..? and after answering this..
what are the number 3 things that u WANT and Wish to be in ur partner's personality..?!!! like sense of humor..or seriousness..or cold-tempered person..or knowledge..or being romantic..or wise..or coool....so on..
اللهم لا إله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين
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WHY DIDNT I Save My Comment? Stupid blogger ate it.
And it was pretty long too ='( (these are tears, in the face up there, and not zechma e7m, lol)
Ok, I was saying its such a difficult q cuz its hard to categorize the importance of these things. Plus, when guys propose, mothers usually go 'he prays and he's good, and its so rare finding a person like him nowadays'. So,would my checklist have a say in it :S
But since you have gone through with the post, I'd better do what you say :p
Ok, My four important criteria:
Religion ( the true kind, not the 7aram 3leech 7alal 3lai kind. I personally believe if this criteriaz there then all the other things like manners, responsibililties and stuff fall into place) - Looks & Education..they have to be in the same category, i can't split em - feeh 7sas (y3ni nice gestures now and then) - LOVES to READ (i dont think ill be happy if I ever end up with some random dude who hates books, Allah la ygool...o.o the thought scares me)
3 things that I'd want my knight in shining armour (and on a white horse) to have:
Sense of humour - Kindness -Adventureous
What about you marmar? Whats your checklist for Monsieur Right?
loooool BoOKy..i hate when that HapPens Too ..poor u :P
nooooooooo..long comment gone...!!! :'(
lool at mothers..yeah i know what u mean..looks and education number 2...interesting :D
and yeah...I can't imagine HIM not reading..how dare HE..!!! :@
lool..ur knight on a white hourse..who thought u were a dreamy girl after all?
Adventureous ..woWW..really? hmmm..did ot think of that..have u been watching Tarzan lately..?loool
well..
1) Religiousity and Akhlag/manners
2) Personality
3) LookS
4) Education and Family Status
not sure about the order thou..
3 things in personality:
1) Confidence
2) Courageous
3) Romantic
and above all..i like Charismatic People..with StronG personlaity..who people respect..u know..the one who u feel can be a leader..knows what he wants..oh and wisDom..lool.. manyyyyy things :D
ThankS for ur comment Dear and have a LovelY WeeeeeeeeK ^_____^
omg!
DON'T get me started on this!
lol
for me, he has to be a good muslim. if he's religiously inclined, then he will also take better care of me, and akhlaq will also come with being religious.
BUT! i have to be able to get along with him. this is where personality comes in. if i can't even talk to him, then no matter how religious he is, i won't go on with it.
he has to have immense respect for all people in general. bad manners and false pride are a big put off. he has to respect my family and in turn i should also respect his.
i love men who are eloquent. bad language skills put me off.
he should be hygienic.
then it's combintaion of looks and financial stability. a bit of both has to be there!!
at the end of the day, he has to be a balanced person. basically a nice guy!
loli interesting topic ..
and about ur dreams .. inshalah kel 7ad w n9eebeh .. and those dreams were maybi signs .. who knows? .. bss aham shaiy tredeeen lrabna fi kel shaiy ..
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hmm ..
u DO NOT want to see my list =p
im soo picky =p .. and i'm a daddy's girl and if i dnt get what i want i go to the next =p looooool
ok that was a bit mean a7es =p im not 5agaga walla .. bss as i said im picky .. and that's your whole life spending with that partner .. its not a joke ..
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Sadiaaaaaaa.
i knowwwww u girls love these topics :P
ur right about the first part..religious..that if he understands islam very well to start with..yes he will be a good husband..a good father..good aklagh ^_^
and i know what u mean to get along with him..some people r easy to with and talk with..others..no matter how nice..its not!!
ensha Allah..u get married to a ncie religious guy ; )
LibeRoO..Ahleen
ya..ofcourse..always el7amdu Allah for everything..and somehow..sometimes i feel BleSsed that i did not say yes or those proposals did not happen :D cuz everything happens for a reason..and ensha Allah Khair ^_^
ur right about being sure of ur chocie..but picky..hmmm..depends what u r picky about :D
some things r essential..other things u can compromise..
Saaankee YOooo for ur comments girls and have a lovelY Week : )
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