~*~ ConFuSeD...?!! ~*~

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MalaySia

When many people around u tell u something is wrong..do not take that road..u will regret..but u feel u want to give it a try..u feel somehow things will be alright and it's the road u wanna take..altho there r many risks..some confusion..some hesitation..

is there any chance that everyone is wrong..and that ur Intuition is right and it might turn OuT GooD?

or the fact that ur hesitating means its wrong..? what if it's not wrong...its just normal fear..how can u tell?!!

Have u ever been in this situation..what did you do? What HapPeneD? and ofcourse here i mean a long-life commitment.. a decision that can chane ur whole life..not chosing between red or black shoes :P
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لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له، له الملك وله الحمد، يحي ويميت وهو على كل شيء قدير

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11 Response to "~*~ ConFuSeD...?!! ~*~"

  1. Ocean Wave, on Wednesday, December 10, 2008 5:31:00 PM said:

    Hi Spring,
    Yes I've been. I think every body has.
    *the right work, according to what I've read in books and hear from good people, is to follow the way that is closer to our dreams (if it's not definitely wrong of course).

    *Salat Istikharah is a good way to find a calm situation(you know bette ^__^)

    *in this situations I decide in a way that is right in my mind and my Heart -both- because we ,human beings, are brain and heart, logic and romantic both together. and ask God to help me.
    good luck

  2. sadia, on Wednesday, December 10, 2008 10:58:00 PM said:

    for big things i usually go with my gut feelings which are quite strong.

    i agree with ocean wave istikharah is the best thing to do if you're confused...inshallah ALLAH (SWT) will guide you to what is good for you.

    i hope everything turns out for the best. and may ALLAH make you happy with the final decision.

    <3

    are you talking about choosing a husband...hmmm??...good luck!

  3. Spring Blend, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 8:53:00 AM said:

    Hey Ocean

    well..I know what u mean..but many dreams may be based on emotions not logic..or short-term gain not long-term losses..but ur right..we should decide by our mind and heart..

    yes salat el estikharah ofcourse ^_^

    Thanks for ur comment


    Hey Sadia

    well..my gut is very ConfuSed..its giving me MiXed signals..i think i need to change the wires :D

    Ameeen..Ensha Allah Khair..Thanks Dear for ur sweet words ^_^

    Husband? what?..who...when..where? :P looool..something like that...

  4. ocean wave, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 11:16:00 AM said:

    logically we should choose long-term gains, but it depends on the gain.
    sometimes, some seemingly short-term gains are not really "short-term". moreover, some gains can compensate some losses...
    at the end... I always refer to my mind and heart together not to regret.

  5. sadia, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 2:33:00 PM said:

    oooh! mashallah!
    i hope allah guides you to choose someone who is good for you in deen oo dnya! inshallah khair!
    *mwah!*

  6. Spring Blend, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 4:04:00 PM said:

    hey Ocean

    ur words make sense to me..i guess i just need to decide whether the gains are worth the losSes

    Thanks again



    hey Sadia

    Ameeen ya rab el 3almeen ya katkOooTa hanim ^__^ ThanKs SweeTy

    Wish u the Best : )

  7. MeeMzZ, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 4:33:00 PM said:

    well i don't know it's very confusing!!

    well i have i long life to live when i go through this i'll make sure i'll tell you!!;p

  8. libero anima, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 8:51:00 PM said:

    hmmmm ..

    as sadia said etha 9alaite este5ara ma bate5sereen shaiy ..

    i think a person should think with his brain not with his heart ..
    cuz desires might not be the best choice at the end ..

    so put down the facts and base ur decisions on that ..
    i've learned a lesson in life .. always put urself over ur desires .. see what's best for u .. not what you'd indulge yourself in cuz that wnt last forever ..

    hope u got my point ?

  9. Spring Blend, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 8:51:00 PM said:

    hey MeeeeemZzZ

    Looooool...no thanks..i can't wait that long :D

    and Try to SeiZe every moment..cuz u will miss those days and use it in the BesT way posSible..islamic way : )

  10. Spring Blend, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 8:59:00 PM said:

    Hey Libero..

    yeah..i know EXactlY what u mean..EmotionS can Guide us sometimes..other times..it can take us Down Hill!!

    so..i dunno..i am going crazy thinking about this..let me think about it more..

    actually the more i think about it..the more ConFuSeD i get :S

    Ensha allah Khair

    ThanKS for the HelP LibeROo : )

  11. MeeMzZ, on Thursday, December 11, 2008 9:15:00 PM said:

    LOOOOL!!;P

    oky 5ala9 you don't want to know i won't tell you!!:( loool!!;p j/k j/k

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