Sometimes..Silence Can KIll Harder than Words and Actions
LooooooK..something scary HapPened to me not last night..the ngiht before it..i watched something about ghosts and stuff then i slept...
I suddenly woke uP before the fajer prayer maybe by 30 minutes or so..i had my planket on..and suddenly ..and pelase don't laugh :@..i felt some one is pulling my hair not tightly just alil bit and removing the right side of my planket from me..i gooooooot soooooooooooo sCAAAAAAAArEd...SOOOOOOOOo frightening : ( looool..really ..it was soooooo reaaaal that i am not sure wehther it was a dream or real...!!!!
okay..let me tell u a dream i once had..
i was once.. really (no in a dream)..in makkah for عمرة with my brother, his wife and children and mother and the day before we get to UAE..i dreamt that i was engaged to a guy who i dunno who..was not very handsome in the dream..Lil bit short for a guy.. .i think also with curly hair looooool..i seemeD unHapPy and was telling mom..that "He did not even call once since we got engaged..!!!" and i sounded sad...i also think cuz i forgot that in the dream his mom got angry or upsEt or did something wrong..dont remmeber
anyways..when we got back to UAE after few days..a lady calls i think it was his aunt and is looking for a girl..it was not a very formal proposal just talk..nothing serious yet..but anyways when mom asked about him..Allah a3lam but they said very close things about him just like in my dream!! like he was lil short not very handsome..and not very social.. and that he is momy's boy lool..and she is in control..any ways once i heard that i got SCared loooooool..i said i dooooooon't want ..i did not even pray estekhara..maybe it was wrong to judge him by a dream but i really felt it was a sign..and anyways..i did not feel encouraged..and maybe the guy is better than me or deserves better i don't mean he is not good..but i did not feel comfortable..and i don't always relay on dreams..maybe if i heard very great things about the guy..i would have changed my mind..dunno
and once there was another proposal...and i dream there were two big white beautiful Full Moons in the sky..it was night..and suddenly in the dream i realized one moon is a baloon not a real mooon..and then the proposal thing did not work out..el7amdu Allah for everything :D maybe it was a sign..?! dunno..it's weird how soemtimes we dream somehting and it becomes real or it might be a sign..other times its just dreams or thoughts floating in the air..u know..?!
what are the number 3 things that u WANT and Wish to be in ur partner's personality..?!!! like sense of humor..or seriousness..or cold-tempered person..or knowledge..or being romantic..or wise..or coool....so on..
اللهم لا إله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين
A while ago, i went to "Dubai Mall" with mom..in the morning..we went to see the Aquarium and the BeauTiful Sea World..if ur living in the UAE..it is a MUST to see..trust me..it's soo amazing..so Beautiful..sub7an Allah...it's worth seeing..i jsut felt like standing there for hours looking at the fish...
there is two type..one u pay less..the other one u gotta pay 50 dirhams for each person ..my advice is..the 50 dirham one is much worth it..cuz u go to the second floor and see more fish and weird creatures ^__^
so..while we were in the car back to home..we were quite..i was thinking in my head about something a girl in my family said couple of days ago..i was thinking should i talk about it or let it go...maybe its better not to.so we don't make غيبة lool..so this is all in my mind..suddenly my mom said..about what the girls said the other day..!!! i told her..I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT IT..!!
i think its weird how soemtimes people think alike at the same time..moment..or when two people call each other at the same time or were thinking of each other at the same time..
it's nice..isn't it? it makes u feel u both r similar..or have a telepathy :D
it doesn't HapPen to me so often..but its weird..
tell me..have this ever happened to u or anyone u know..what happened? how did u feel?
let me Tell u a secret
This week they have put me on the Afternon shift from 11 am till 7.30 Pm ..and from 3.30 onwards ..all the other nutritionist/Dietitians in the office leave home and i stay alone wroking in the office in the hospital..in the 13 th floor where there is little people....it was DEpReSsssssssssssing ..i wanted someone to talk to....really i felt depREssed loool..and i started thniking negatively..then i said its better to make du2`a..any ways..then suddenly my mom called..hi..what r u doing..she made me SOoooo HapPy.. ^__^ i know u probably don't how how it feels until u try it..trust me..!! but actually i juSt remmebered..at the end of the day..i felt i accomplished something..learned something..i will write about that later..i felt hapPy ..also..the supervisor of the kitchen gave me Zamzam Water ..^__^ SOoo Coool..elhamdu Allah
OkaaY....so i have a request..so when i have free time nowadays after the Tiring Work..i check my blog soemtimes in the office...so write me anything funny starting form today till thursday ...anything encouraging lool..any stories..any thing u want to share..say..even if its a loooooooooooong comment..just write anything..entertain me..about u..about me..about ur friends..about life..about what u have learned from ur experiences..about ur dreams..about islamic stories..weird things..du2'a..anything : )
This Is SprinG BlenD..Reminding Us..Just in case We Forgot... ; )
Hey..Glad u liked his video everyone..hope everyone benefits from his videos and be influenced positively no matter how small..cuz it may make a huge difference some day... : )
Here is his YouTube Url
Did u know he has converted to Islam? so he wasn't born Muslim..Masha Allah
there is another Video..Culture VS Islam..Love it..!! u gotta see it..
Hey..this also applies to us when practicing Islam in front of our NephewS and NieceS..friends..other non-muslims people..
So here is Baba Ali.. from youtube..i have been watching his videos before and stoppEd for a while..i just rememebered him today..
i like his reminders..his way of conveying his messages in a simple funny way..its nice that he has all this Excitment And EnerGy..but soemtimes he gets too ExCciTeD..!!!! :D
Maybe i will post some of his other videos soon..i just saw this one and thought why not..?..Enjoy : )
i am not a very political person..but i like to know the news from time to time , mostly from dad, so that i don't feel i am ignorant !!
it's frustrating how little we care sometimes about all what is hapPening to the Islamic countries..how little some of us pray..how little we think seriously about them..i am talking about some people..NOT ALL..
its fustrating how much rich countries are spending on fancy buildings..hotels..landmarks.. ..that r mostly suitable for foreingners ..!!and..milliOons of dolalrs spend on FIREWORKs.. for what..?!! few seconds of pleasure?!! ignoring the fact that millions of poor people r dying from hunger in africa and other palces!!
it's frustrating the laws we have in the UAE are not strong enough to preserve the principles of islam and the UAE's Traditions..in terms of how foreings wear..and how they behave in Public places..
if anyone knows any new laws about this..please let me know..i know in Sharjah..there are some laws in terms of what people can wear..or approperiate behaviors..but in other cities ..not sure..
I do admit that the UAE has given us Many Opportunities to do Great things as locals..to be safe..to feel secure..happy..educated elhamdu Allah..but i think law makers should pay more attention to those small things that will slowly destroy our identity..
don't u think we are slowly becoming Submitted and OKAY with the everyday Scenes of inapproperiate clothes!!.. aren't our children being exposed to it and getting used to it..? i think the fact that we r getting used to it is dangerous..cuz it is then that we lose any sense of responsibility and craving for changing the situation..
isn't it sad that many places..entertainment places are build for open-minded people!!..swimming pools..skating places..not all, but i mean most..i mean we girls can't go and enjoy it alone without men being around!!
i heard, not sure, that in Singapore, owning a T.V Dish is not legal..perhaps because they do not want their children and people being expoSed to Exotic IdeAS?
well ..i am not agreeing 100% with this or diagreeing but..don;t u think the thign s our children watchc on T.v is sCary?..yes..parents and fmaily members should watch the kids and allow or not allow certain things..but..u can't watch them 100% of the time..! and when i see my nephew HamOooDy..watching some of the MBC 3 cartoons..i get frustrated..a cartoon about 3 girls wearing tight and putting make uP..is that what we want our kids to watch?.. a cartoon that is about anger..fight..or even inapproperiate clothes..!!No CoMmenT..!!!
I MiSs going to the beach..just walking..listening to the sounds of the WaveSs..Have u ever tried to lay down on the cold sand in the night..looking at the stars..thinking or perhaps talking with a good friend..?
i did..and Trust me it feeels GOOOOOOOOOD.. ^_^
u gotta try it..its Relieving..relAxing..makes u feel everything is alright..
Sometimes..we gotta leave everything behind uS for a second..relax..and EnjoY the nature..that moment..just to forget about our problems..beleive me..even for few minutes..
SMALL THINGS CAN MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE..SMALL WORDS AND ACTIONS MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE
TODAY WE WENT TO MY AUNT'S HOUSE..SO MY UNCLE CALLED me..WHERE R U? HE SAID: " I can't wait to see you..." isn't that cute..?! lool..i mean u don't hear men saying that alot..i gueSs he is romantic at HearT :P any ways..he made Me HapPpPYyy..see how we girls can be hapPy by Simple True WOordS ^_^..so don't ever hesistate to tell ur family n friends how much they mean to u..n how much u LOovE Them ..actually its silly i am advising u this cuz i find it eXtreeeeeemly hard to expResS my feelings face to face even to my parents n friends..hmmmm..any ways..i should try ..but i mean even by writting a small note..a gift..a smile..a touch..a msg..there r many ways..be CreaTive..
Small Things Make A Big DiffeRenCe..!
so is it easy for you to exPreSs ur Feelings..and why?
^_^ yalla..see you..
لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له، له الملك وله الحمد، يحي ويميت وهو على كل شيء قدير
Al Salam Alikom
I am BAAACK from Singapoooooooooore ^_^
emmmmm...SOoo many thingS to say..dunno where to start..i liked it..it was nice..very greenish..very clean..Besautiful Big Trees and nature.. and very crowded where we stayed..but the wehther was very humid..which made it feel hot..although it rained on monday but still hot..mmmmmm what else..the most Interesting place we went to was SenToSaa...we played cars or sliders there lool..i wish i could post the pic :D we look funny..
and we used the telefrik..it was sooooooooooo sCAry loool..if u could see our faces..even my brothers were scared cuz it was kinda high and not covered..nice experience tho : )
oooooh...guess what..we saw a doliphine show out there too...SOooo cool..really..three cute grey pinkish dolphines waving their hands...jumPing Up and doWn...soo Friendly..I Love Dolphines ^___^cute..sub7an Allah..
then we saw a singing Bird..loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool..it was singing very BeauTifully and in a fUnNy way..i recorded it by my mobile phone but its not that clear...the bird was singing something like
"Singapoooooooooooooraaaa..singapOOOooooooora.."something" flowers for you and me..i can't remmeber..and it sang the singapoooooooora part like opera loool :D sooo funNY and the guy said the bird i can't remember what they calle this type of bird!!..has the mind of a 3 years old kid..!!
I was sad today tho..cuz when ur traveling..ur in a dream Luxurious world..and now we r back to reality : ( but heeeeeeeey el7amdu Allah for everything..we had Fun ^________^
when ur in a foreign country..u really can't feel Eid..maybe unless if ur living there for a long time..still not the same..but it was a different experience..a weird one .. we ate launch on Eid with my family and my Couzin's Son who is studying there.. then we went walking under the rain to the flower park..i liked it..it was BeauTiful..but we didn't see all of it....cuz it was raining and my brothers wanted to leave..we got wet..but i love walking under the rain..hmmmm..ooooooooooh did i mentioned that the whole family went to something called:
" Fish Massage"
looooool..seriously..i didn't go..altho i would like to try one day :D but its fish i think from Turkey..small ones and u put ur feet into a small pool and the fish eat the dead skin of ur feet loooool..it tickles, my brother says..Creative ..isn`t it ; )? even Hamoody and My other nephew tried it :D..u should try it !
okaaaay..so over all ..its a nice place ..at the begining i felt the people were not that friendly..but it really depends..cuz some were very smiley and friendly..so i can't generelize..u can also see women wearing scarf but the majority are non-Muslims...the thing that bothered me the most is that maaaaaaany of women there wear very short clothes..maaaaany of them..
so maybe we should walk with closed eyes :D hehe..anyways..u can also find indians..mosques..centers..ZoO..Science Centre which was preTtY cool..Bird park..oooooooh and penguinS...i looooooove them soooooo much..so 3-5 days are preTty much enough to see the important places..not more than one week for sure..unless u go to some islands near Singapore..
hey check this out..look at the middle Butterfly..it has one wing from the female and the other (left)wing looks like the male's wing..Amazing...Sub7an allah ^_^
الله ما أمسى بي من نعمة أو بأحد من خلقك فمنك وحدك لا شريك لك فلك الحمد ولك الشكر
إن الحمد والنعمة لك / والملك لا شريك لك
Authentic..i think u should try it..specially girls..maybe guys won't like the idea after all :D i feel it adds a beautiful flavour to the whole experience..u feel the person really cares for u for taking the time and writting a letter..just like old dayS.. : )
oh and sometimes i wear my socks ...بالعكس lool i dunno how to say it..when i am in a HurRy.. and sometimes I like to eat alone at work..just to think..and EnjoY the SalienCe..even if it`s crowded...i feel it`s nice..not always tho..
i am not saying all locals are like this..being a local myself although originally iranian..i see many good locals so its not necessarly about naitonality its about personality and manners and Good or bad udnerstanding of islamic principles..
i was in one of the hospital's sections..the elevator opens.. an indian or something worker with a medium cartoon box wants to get it and its kinda crowded..but he eventually gets in..although maybe perhaps he should have waited but still he managed to get in..one local guy says soemthing like.."what is this..put the box over ur head..i" loool i know it might sond funny but i got soo angry i mean come on...!!!! isn't that just soooooo frustrating :@@@@@@@@@...!!!!!!
if ur local..or lebanese or whatever it doesnt mean ur better than others..some foreign workers work more than us with bad conditions and minimum wages so show some respect pleaase..!!!! :@@@
Would u be proud of ur self knowing Allah is watching ur actions..? would u do the exactly same attitude if u our prophet Mohammed -peace be upon him- was with u in the elvator..!!
think about it..we would change many many of our actions and attitudes if our phopher -peace be uponhim-was present..although we know Allah watches us all the times but perhaps sometimes we r ignorant or forget or to try to forget...this is a reminder for me..as well as for u..
قال الرسول الكريم-صلى الله عليه وسلم- أمام الجموع الحاشدة في حجة الوداع: "يا أيها الناس، ألا إن ربكم واحد وإن أباكم واحد، ألا لا فضل لعربي على أعجمي ولا أعجمي على عربي ولا لأحمر على أسود ولا أسود على أحمر، إلاّ بالتقوى..."
2- رواه أحمد في مسنده 5/411 عن أبي نضرة عمن سمع خطبة رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم وسط أيام التشريق. وذكره الهيثمي في المجمع (3/266) وقال: رواه أحمد ورجاله رجال الصحيح. ونقل الشيخ الألباني عن ابن تيمية في (الاقتضاء 69)، أنه قال: إسناده صحيح.
So..here is my Question..What do u think of those two situations..?do u think its out of ignorance or arrogance or what exactly? and What Would YOU do in those situations...would u just watch and keep quite..or defend the indian guy and worker or show ur anger or disapproval..?
for my self..i just kept quite cuz i don't find the levator a good place to advice people lool plus there r other people and some important conditions of good advising in my view is to:
1. Watch for the right TiminG
2,. The PlacE and PrivacY
3. The WaY of SendinG ur MessagE and AdvicinG
الحديث الشريف من موقع:
Allow me to complain a lil bit this Beautiful morning ..
I have twoooo afternoon days this week :`( it means I have to work from 11 am until 7:30 pm and I reach home 8 pm and I am exhausted and u feel ur day is gone with the wind.. I don’t want ..i don’t want
Let me surprise you more..not now but very soon we will have to go to wok on Friday’s and Saturday’s not every week but sometimes ...CAN YOU IMAGINEEEEEEE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok forget it..sometimes I get more angry when I talk about the things that bother me
Thursday night I saw some men working in the streets..i felt sad because those men like Indians, Pakistani and all..work the most hard works with sometimes hard conditions like in the middle of the morning and its hot with minimum wages and salary..makes me sad but they have to..makes me think how much I am blessed el7amdu Allah..specially those who clean the streets and toilets..i often feel I wanna help them cuz they break my heart ..so don’t forget about those people..be kind..smile to them..give them صدقة tell them thank you..cuz few words can change their day and feel appreciated
I ate looooooooots of chocolate this week..but don’t tell any one I eat too much food specially sweets when I am stressed or sad yum yum YuMMy..but I feel guilty cuz I am a nutritionist and I should eat healthy :D I do try ..really..but I need to try harder.. : )
this simple conversation might be funny or a good mini-story to share..but if u really n deeply think about it..u will find it scary
scary cuz those little messages we are sending to our children..to the community have Great impacs on the long term..
the child grows up thinking woman are weak..woman are not very important..woman can not be leaders or well-respected as men..it is dangerous messages that WoORrieS me